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Children Cases
Representing yourself, is it a good idea?
There is nothing more distressing than being prevented from seeing your children. Before separation, you may have spent time with them every day, something that is often taken for granted until it is suddenly limited or stopped altogether.
When contact becomes unreasonably restricted, or ceases entirely, waiting and hoping for the situation to improve is rarely effective. Taking the right steps at the right time is essential to protecting and rebuilding your relationship with your children.
Where communication, mediation, and the involvement of family or friends have been tried and have not worked, court may become the only option, and it should always be treated as a last resort.
The family court process can be challenging. It may feel frustrating, illogical, and at times unfair. You cannot predict what the other party may raise, and mistakes can happen. For these reasons, when court becomes unavoidable, it is vital to approach it with a clear plan, a solid understanding of what is involved, and the right support to maximise your chances of a positive outcome.
Support at Every Stage
We offer a wide range of support options to suit different needs, including:
One-to-one telephone consultations
Online training courses
Coaching courses
Downloadable guides and templates
Access to a dedicated support forum
Free webinars
Face-to-face training events
With over 25 years of experience in the Family Courts and having been Called to the Bar as a Barrister, you will find support here that is accurate, practical, honest, and grounded in real court experience.
Proven Support You Can Trust
Thousands of fathers, mothers, grandparents, aunts, and uncles have benefited from our guidance and gone on to establish arrangements that work for them and their families.
Representing yourself can work — but it must be done properly.
We are here to help you do exactly that.
Be Prepared. Be Ready. Be Confident.
Children Cases - Part One
Children Cases – Part One covers everything from the point at which you begin considering a court application through to the conclusion of the First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment (FHDRA).
Following separation, disagreements often arise about how much time each parent spends with the children. These issues are frequently complicated by their connection to child maintenance and financial arrangements, which can add further tension and confusion.
You may already have an agreement in place — but an important question remains: is it a fair and workable agreement? Arrangements such as being limited to supervised contact in your former partner’s home, for example, are rarely sustainable long term. While some parents feel forced to accept what they can in the short term, court proceedings may ultimately become necessary as a last resort.
Understanding what the court is likely to order allows you to assess your position realistically. Although the court process can take several months, having clarity early on helps you weigh the pros and cons, plan ahead, and make informed decisions.
All of our Training Courses and Coaching Courses will cover the points the Court will deal with, and provide in depth information to assist you as well as sample documents and templates to use for your own case.
You are also able at anytime to book a 30 minute Conference Call with Simon Walland to obtain guidance, support or advice, helping you to prepare thoroughly and present your case with confidence. This is included in the Coaching Course Option
Should I make an application (Free Preview)
Introduction and Course Curriculum (Free Preview)
Making an offer before an application
Making your Application
Your Safeguarding Interview
Writing a Position Statement
What is the Court looking for from you
Preparing for the Hearing
Attending Court and the Hearing
What comes next
Children Cases - Part Two
Children Cases – Part Two takes you from the conclusion of the first hearing through to, and including, a Final Hearing.
In many cases that do not settle at the FHDRA, the court will direct a Section 7 Report to be prepared. This course explains the purpose of the report, the Cafcass interview process, and how best to prepare for it. The Section 7 Report will usually include a recommendation regarding the arrangements for the children.
Depending on the recommendations made, you may choose to accept them or challenge them at the next hearing. Where agreement cannot be reached, the case may proceed to a Final Hearing, where those issues are determined by the court.
All of our Training Courses and Coaching Courses will cover the points the Court will deal with, and provide in depth information to assist you as well as sample documents and templates to use for your own case.
You are also able at anytime to book a 30 minute Conference Call with Simon Walland to obtain guidance, support or advice, helping you to prepare thoroughly and present your case with confidence. This is included in the Coaching Course Option
Coaching, Training, Digital Guides and Lectures
Coaching Courses
Our Coaching Courses cover the same comprehensive content as our Training Courses. However, they offer an enhanced level of support designed to guide you step by step through the learning process.
At key stages throughout the course, you will have the opportunity to book an Inclusive Case Conference with Simon Walland. These sessions allow you to:
Review your progress
Check your documentation
Ensure you are following the correct direction
Address any questions or concerns as they arise
The Coaching Courses provide structured, hands-on support to help you apply what you are learning in real time. They are ideal for those who want reassurance, accountability, and expert guidance to ensure everything is done properly, on time, and with the right information.
This approach gives you the confidence to move forward knowing you are fully supported at every stage of your learning journey.
Structured Legal Training Courses
Representing yourself in court is entirely possible, but it requires a clear understanding of the correct steps and documentation at each stage. If you are unsure about what is required or when, our Training Courses provide structured guidance to help you navigate the process with confidence.
You will learn each stage of the case step by step, ensuring that everything is completed properly, on time, and with the correct information, giving you the best possible foundation when representing yourself.
Our Digital Essential Guides
These PDF digital downloads have been carefully written to explain the wide range of situations you may encounter and feel unsure about during the family court process.
Each guide provides clear, essential information to help you understand the correct procedures and what is required at each stage. They are designed to support you where a full training video is not necessary or where written guidance is more appropriate.
Every PDF follows a step-by-step approach, making complex processes easier to understand. Where relevant, the guides also include sample documents and templates to help you apply the information confidently and correctly.
These resources are intended to give you clarity, structure, and practical support when you need it most.
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If you are representing yourself in the family courts, or taking a Hybrid approach and doing as much of the leg work yourself (at little to no cost) then these products will benefit you in understanding what approach to take and what paperwork is needed at each stage of the process.
Contact
Location
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Phone number
07900 414121
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