When agreements are made, legally, a verbal agreement
is as valid as a written agreement, however,
disagreements as to what was agreed upon leave
uncertainty and hostility.
Turning your agreement into a legally binding
Court Order is a sensible step which will avoid
any future arguments
Mistakes in the Order may have far reaching
consequences which could even invalidate the Order
If you are not married, the law gives you less
protection, but a written agreement will show
your true intentions which will be your basis
to follow what was agreed
Be Prepared. Be Ready. Be Confident
CONSENT ORDERS AND OTHER ESSENTIAL COURT DOCUMENTS
Practical Guidance for People Representing Themselves
Have you.....
…reached an agreement about how to divide your finances?
…agreed on how often the children will spent time with you both?
…decided to cohabit but worried about what each of you is putting into the relationship?
…want to separate but don’t want arguments later on about what is fair?
…want to marry but concerned about the assets you already have?
Clear Agreements That Protect You and Your Family
When relationships change, it is important to ensure that agreements about finances, property, and children are clear, fair, and legally recognised.
Many couples are able to reach sensible agreements between themselves. However, without the right legal structure, those agreements may not be legally binding or enforceable.
We provide professional assistance in preparing the documents needed to formalise your agreement properly, giving both parties clarity and peace of mind for the future.
Consent Orders – Financial and Children Matters
If you and your former partner have reached an agreement about finances or arrangements for your children, a Consent Order allows that agreement to be approved by the court.
Once approved by a judge, a Consent Order becomes legally binding.
This can cover issues such as:
• division of savings and investments
• property arrangements
• pensions
• ongoing financial support
• arrangements for children
A properly drafted Consent Order ensures that the agreement you have reached is clearly recorded and legally enforceable, helping to prevent future disputes.
Separation and Cohabitation Agreements
Not every couple wishes to begin immediate court proceedings or divorce.
A Separation Agreement allows couples to record how they intend to manage their finances, property, and responsibilities while living apart.
A Cohabitation Agreement allows couples to record how they intend to manage their finances, property, and responsibilities before they commit to living together, or at least early in the process to avoid arguments later on.
These agreements commonly cover:
• financial arrangements
• responsibility for debts
• use or sale of property
• arrangements for children
• future intentions regarding divorce
Although either a Separation or Cohabitation Agreement is not a court order, it provides a clear written framework that can later assist the court if formal proceedings take place.
Prenuptial Agreements
Planning ahead can prevent conflict later.
A Prenuptial Agreement allows couples to set out how finances, property, and assets should be dealt with if the relationship ends in the future.
These agreements are particularly helpful where:
• one or both parties have significant assets
• there are children from previous relationships
• family businesses or inherited assets are involved
• there is a desire to protect property acquired before marriage
While the court always retains the final decision in financial matters, properly prepared prenuptial agreements are increasingly recognised and given significant weight by the courts
Clear, Professional Assistance
Preparing these agreements requires careful drafting to ensure that the terms are clear, balanced, and properly structured.
We assist clients by:
• preparing legally structured agreements
• ensuring the terms reflect the parties’ intentions
• explaining the process clearly
• guiding you through the steps required for court approval where necessary
Our aim is to help you create agreements that provide certainty, stability, and protection for the future.
What help is available?
Simon Walland has over 25 years’ experience in the Family Courts and has supported thousands of people navigating children and financial proceedings.
Beginning with his own case in 2001, then working as a Professional Mckenzie Friend and being Called to the Bar as a Barrister, Simons knowledge of legal procedure is second to none and having seen people making the same mistakes time and time again he now devotes his time to helping people to Represent Themselves in the Family Courts properly.
Telephone Advice
Book a Consultation to discuss your situation
Digital Downloads
A brief overview explaining the process and what is required
Training Courses
Step by Step video instruction explaining the complete process with samples and templates to use
Coaching Courses
Step by Step video instruction explaining the complete process with regular Conference calls on Zoom to discuss progress and reolve any problems you have, the check and discuss documents and strategy, with samples and templates to use
Support in Court
Attendance in Court as a Mckenzie Friend
Who this help is for
This course is suitable if:
• You have been served with a Non-Molestation Order
• Allegations made against you are false
• Child contact is being restricted or undermined
• You are representing yourself
• You want to act properly and strategically
No legal background is required.
Take the Next Step
If you and your partner have reached an agreement and would like it properly recorded and formalised, we can help.
Contact us today to discuss how we can assist with:
• Financial Consent Orders
• Children Consent Orders
• Separation Agreements
• Cohabitation Agreements
• Prenuptial Agreements
Clear agreements now can prevent significant problems later.
Book a Consultation
If you are unsure about any aspect of your case and want to discuss your situation with me,