Represent Yourself In Your Domestic Abuse Case
Can I represent myself and save money?
How do I challenge False Allegations?
Why has the Judge believed my exes lies?
What documents will I need?
What happens in each hearing?
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Templates and Sample Documents
Be Prepared. Be Ready. Be Confident.
Domestic Abuse Cases
Representing yourself, is it a good idea?
Allegations of abuse are an all too common event in Family Law proceedings. Obviously there are situations where the allegations are true, there is a victim that needs to be protected, and that is right and as it should be. However, there are also cases in which allegations are false, and are used to cause needless distress and delay to the other party.
When Legal Aid was removed in Family Law , there was a sudden increase of allegations of abuse. The simple reason being that the person making the allegations would usually be granted Legal Aid. That provided them with a Solicitor to run their case and a Barrister at the hearings, all for free.
When the allegations are false, they need to be dealt with. There is little help for parents that find themselves accused of abuse and the whole concept of feeling that everything is against you, that there is no support and linked with the usual added pain of being unable to see your children until the court has assessed the risk, it is a dreadful situation to find yourself in. The Court will often make a Non-Molestation Order without you even being aware of an application being made and from your fist knowledge of this, when a Court Order is served on you, you are on the back foot in a world that seems alien and makes little sense where everyone else seems to beleive your ex and looks down on you as a violent thug.
This situation is unfortunately all too common, but can be dealt with. The court will hold what is known as a 'Return Date Hearing' following the order being made to hear your side of the story and to decide how to continue. You have options at that stage to have the order removed or watered down. If you wish, the court will order Statements and a Schedule of allegations and move to a Fact Finding Hearing where the court will hear evidence from both sides and make a decision on each allegation.
Representing yourself is possible and it is also possible to prove that the allegations are false. You will need guidance and support through this process as you will need to work your way through a process that makes little sense, and remain calm, confident and honest. Being emotional is often the thing that will spoil your chances. It is very difficult to shake off the injustice and distress that you have constantly banging inside your head and think logically and calmly about your situation.
We offer support and guidance through this process which will keep you on track and going in the right direction.
Be Prepared. Be Ready. Be Confident
Part One
Domestic Abuse Cases Part One will cover everything from either of two typical scenarios that happen all too frequently in the Family Courts:
Either false allegations have been made against you in your children case which has completely derailed your application causing delay and frustration, or…
You have been served an order not to go anywhere near your home or speak to your ex, based on False Allegations. Often following an application to see your children.
Both of these scenarios will follow the same course through the courts. Your ex will probably get free representation, you will have to manage your own case. This course will take you from the first steps through to mounting your challenge and getting to a Court Hearing to insist that the allegations made against you are considered properly by the court so that the truth can come out.
Please note, only purchase this course if the allegations against you are not true
Part Two
Domestic Abuse Cases Part Two will follow the procedure from the end of the first hearing at which the Judge will order a schedule of allegations and a Statement. You now have the opportunity to mount your fight back. You can provide evidence to prove your case if evidence exists, you can prepare for a Fact Finding Hearing and explain to the court why the allegations are untrue. Failure to do this properly will irretrievable damage your chances of seeing the children again, so this must all be dealt with properly.
Please note, only purchase this course if the allegations against you are not true
Coaching, Training, Digital Guides and Lectures
Coaching Courses
Our Coaching Courses cover the same comprehensive content as our Training Courses. However, they offer an enhanced level of support designed to guide you step by step through the learning process.
At key stages throughout the course, you will have the opportunity to book an Inclusive Case Conference with Simon Walland. These sessions allow you to:
Review your progress
Check your documentation
Ensure you are following the correct direction
Address any questions or concerns as they arise
The Coaching Courses provide structured, hands-on support to help you apply what you are learning in real time. They are ideal for those who want reassurance, accountability, and expert guidance to ensure everything is done properly, on time, and with the right information.
This approach gives you the confidence to move forward knowing you are fully supported at every stage of your learning journey.
Structured Legal Training Courses
It is all very well representing yourself through each type of court case, but if you are unsure about the steps or the documents you will need, use our training courses to learn every step to make sure you do things properly, on time and with the right information
Our Digital Essential Guides
These PDF digital downloads have been carefully written to explain the wide range of situations you may encounter and feel unsure about during the family court process.
Each guide provides clear, essential information to help you understand the correct procedures and what is required at each stage. They are designed to support you where a full training video is not necessary or where written guidance is more appropriate.
Every PDF follows a step-by-step approach, making complex processes easier to understand. Where relevant, the guides also include sample documents and templates to help you apply the information confidently and correctly.
These resources are intended to give you clarity, structure, and practical support when you need it most.
All products
If you are representing yourself in the family courts, or taking a Hybrid approach and doing as much of the leg work yourself (at little to no cost) then these products will benefit you in understanding what approach to take and what paperwork is needed at each stage of the process.
Contact
Location
71-75 Shelton Street, Covent Garden, London, WC2H 9JQ
Phone number
07900 414121
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