When you separate, whether married or cohabiting, being able to sensibly divide up your assets can be a challenge. There are many misconceptions with people beleiveing that if they personally paid the mortgage the house belongs to them, that their high income is theirs and theirs alone. Pensions, cars, valuables are all assets, and if they were accumulated within the marriage they generally belong to you both. Assets obtrained before the marriage but brought into the marriage can also be included, and things start to become complicated.
The Court process is a relatively simple one. There will be a maximum of two hearings, the first to ascertain what value of assets are matrimonial, and the second hearing is where the Judge will listen to both sides and then explain what they think is the best way to divide things. At this point, either the writing is on the wall and people concede their fixed ideas and reach an agreement, or they have simply had enough and they settle. But settling is an option, and if you want to have your day in court, thrash out the finer details of things in front of a Judge you can elect to go to a Final Hearing. These are not simple at all and can be very complex. But when you dont want to accept, what to you seems to be a bad deal, then you need a Final Hearing to get to the bottom of things.
Many people represent themselvs in finacial hearings. The first hearing, the FDA is not difficult, although preparing the paperwork correctly in important. The Second Hearing it is advisable to get some help, either with preparation or in court, and the Final Hearing it is important to get help with preparation and the hearing. Having said that, when needs must and you do not have the money or cannot justify spending money, you need to represent yourself, but make sure that you get advice and support if nothing else.
Be Prepared. Be ready. Be Confident.