THINGS THAT I WISH I HAD KNOWN
BEFORE I FIRST WENT TO COURT
The things that nobody tells you before yougo to the Family Courts
Avoid making the same mistakes, having thesame worries, the same stress andstop getting stressed
Be Prepared. Be Ready. Be Confident
THINGS THAT I WISH I HAD KNOWN BEFORE I FIRST WENT TO COURT
Practical Guidance for People Representing Themselves
Representing Yourself in the Family Court?
If you’re facing the Family Court for the first time, it’s normal to feel overwhelmed, anxious, and unsure where to start.
You may be asking yourself:
• What will happen at the hearing?
• What does the judge expect from me?
• What paperwork do I actually need?
• What if I say or do the wrong thing?
• How do I protect my position without a solicitor?
These concerns are common — and avoidable with the right preparation
A Free Guide Based on Real Experience
After 25 years working in the Family Courts, I have seen the same issues arise time and time again.
Not because people don’t care, but because no one explains how the system really works for those representing themselves.
This free book is written to give you the understanding most people wish they had before their first hearing.
What This Book Will Explain
Things That I wish I Had Known Before Going To Court explains:
• What the court is actually looking for from you
• What really matters, and what doesn’t
• Common mistakes litigants in person make
• How to prepare properly for hearings
• How to approach court calmly and confidently
• How to avoid damaging your own case unintentionally
There is no legal jargon and no theory — just practical, experience-based guidance.
Who This Book Is For
This guide is suitable for:
• Parents involved in children proceedings
• People dealing with financial proceedings
• Litigants in person
• Anyone considering representing themselves
You do not need any legal background to benefit from this book.
Why Preparation Matters
Court is not about being clever or knowing the law. It is about:
• Being organised
• Understanding the process
• Focusing on the right issues
• Presenting yourself clearly and calmly
The better prepared you are, the more confidence you will have — and the more effectively you can represent yourself.
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Things That I wish I Had Known Before Going To Court
Practical Guidance for People Representing Themselves
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About The Author
Simon Walland has over 25 years’ experience in the Family Courts and has supported thousands of people navigating children and financial proceedings.
Beginning with his own case in 2001, then working as a Professional Mckenzie Friend and being called to the Bar as a Barrister, Simons knowledge of Legal procedure is second to none and having seen people making the same mistakes time and time again he now devotes his time to helping people to Represent Themselves in the Family Courts properly.
This guide reflects the practical realities of court — not legal theory.
What Happens Next
Once you download the book:
• You’ll receive a small number of follow-up emails
• These explain key points in more detail
• You can unsubscribe at any time
If and when you need further support, training and coaching options are available — but there is no pressure to proceed.
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